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'Who do you think is a good husband in your mind? When it comes to ideal type, I used to change my type. But as time goes by, I'm realizing just one. One of my necessary list about it is christian. But he's going to be a christian. I mean.. Sometimes when I hesitate who's right person, I want to pray in everything. But if he's not, I'll not sure he's my destiny.

Yesterday, I heard so serious problem about my close old friend. She is supposed to get married after 10days. But.. She got some wrong matters in the process of marriage.
Of course, I haven't any right of her choice and that marriage. In addition I haven't having a relationship.

But I just asked her. "What if you get married? Do you think you're gonna be happy?" It's so serious. Even though it's excuse, I was so serious.
There are a few reasons with this negative side.

1. Attitude
Husband is gonna be a good man that can love so much for his wife. At least, the time that prepare their own marriage. Right? But this guy usually can't say that I love you. Even.. When his mother and wife have a discussion about marriage, he always stick to the mother. I wanted to write more. But I'll save.

2. Pursuit of money
You know, we can't but love with money. Somebody says money can help to do everything. But I don't think so. Especially this is important between the husband and wife. But when I heard that couple, he's like kind of child. He's too much when he choose something for marriage. Even his mother is also suggest the son's opinion. Whenever he choose something like machine, he always want to buy more expensive than she pick. I don't understand.

And I want to write more and more, but I think I have to keep this. I hope she is going to choose best choice. Please