'Love and.. Marriage. Are those different? What do you think about it? When I see my friend, the older we've gotten, we're getting serious about this stuff. It means.. We're growing up toward an adult.
By the way, in my opinion, they are different. In the past, I think they are almost same. But it turns out.. Even though they are about love in our life, they are different.
Here are a few reasons.
First, it's about thing between both families. You know what I mean? If I get marry with someone, I just don't relate with only my husband. I have to care about his family including his parents. The marriage requires so many things than we thought.
And this is about human relationship as well. All of sudden, I can get lots of members as my family. Seems like weird, right?
Sometimes I saw the trouble about the opposite side's family through my parents or my friends in church.
I know that's common. And that's a marriage.
Second, living with him/her.
I'm talking about the long term that we're going to living together. It's not easy to break again. Because there is a rule here. The rule protect the marriage. It's so different with having a relationship. And we have to live for so long time If we got marry. So when we try to having a relationship at the old age, we have to got serious about this.
Whether he is good or not, Whether it's happiness or not. Because he will be your HUSBAND that you have to care forever. Right? So we need to choose and meet him or her with serious sight.
There you have it.
How is your opinion? I wonder :)
It's my opinion. I'm not sure this is getting changing again.
But! the most important thing in marriage is also LOVE each other